Useful Suggestions for Younger Men Dating Older Women

An older woman also called a cougar. With the development of society, there are all kinds of people like different dating, such as cougar dating, BBW dating, bisexual dating, and etc. Actually, cougar dating means younger men dating older women. Here we will give you some useful suggestions about cougar dating when you get on cougar dating sites.

Tell cougar about your thoughts in advance.

When you make the initial contact if it is just for casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it to save time on both sides. If you are straight forward it allows both of you to begin with the same expectations of sex. If not it's a waste of both of your time.

Don't text when you introduce yourself.

Texting is fine, I'm not against it, but when it comes to dating and meeting in the beginning, don't text everything to arrange dating. It's a real turnoff. Offer to call her on the phone.

Older women prefer making the first call.

If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn't conform to the traditional old ways. Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call.

Don't tell cougar you look good for your age.

Yes, remember not to tell her you look good for your age. Yuck. That's the last thing she wants to hear. Tell her she looks great!

Be honest to you and her.

If it is honest and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are. If in any way you meet and you see that she's got the plastic surgery going on, has lied about her age, then you know where you are at with her. And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself.

Pay for older women on the first date.

The older woman is used to dating. She was brought up that way. She is used to being treated well. Pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share. You just seem really cool when you do that.

Communicate with her especially on the first date.

Don't make it an interrogation. It's uncomfortable for both, and there's no way of having any kind of fun or spontaneous conversation. If she feels you are totally into learning about her that is a real turn on, especially if you have a sense of humor.

Don't mispresent yourself to her.

If the picture you have online is what she will see in person, don't come walking in looking nothing like your photo, either being fifty pounds heavier, the photo was taken when you were twenty years younger. Just like you don't want someone to misrepresent themselves to you, don't misrepresent to them.

Meet in a public place.

She will want to meet you in a public place and allow her to make arrangements to meet, mainly in her hood. Again, it's a turn on to a woman to have the man go out of his way to meet a woman.

Call and text her if you want to meet her.

If you say you are going to call her then call. If you can't then text her and make a plan for another time. Same goes if you are going to meet at a certain time, and you are going to be late, text her and let her know.

Get to know her ahead of time.

Neither one of you knows ahead of time where this will go. No expectations. The most important is in getting to know one another, having fun, being honest and upfront. Don't say you want to see her again if you are full of shit. If you cannot say it in person then send a short email.

There is no stigma to dating older women.

Men have been dating younger women for ages. But once you go that route if you feel uncomfortable don't do it. And don't do it because you are looking for a mommy. We've had plenty experience of raising children, we don't need to be a mommy to you.

All above are some useful suggestions for younger men dating older women, if you are one of those younger men looking for older women, read more dating tips and blogs on our cougar dating sites.